While debating the issue of discrimination to the Prop 8ers at school today, one of the ladies asked why gay people aren’t happy with calling their legal relationships “civil unions” because in California, “civil unions” are afforded the same rights from the State as legal marriages. (These laws don’t afford equal health care benefits or recognition by other states or by the federal government, however, but that’s for a different blog).
My response was that in order to afford equal protection under the law, -which you cannot have if you seperate an entire group of people based on who they are and label them differently- we could take the religious term, “marriage” out of our law, keep it in the churches, and call all legal marriages “civil unions” so that the legal definition is not the same as the religious one.
You know what she said? “I don’t want to degrade my marriage by calling it a civil union.”
Wait, so a civil union is a step down from marriage? But it’s legally equal… you said so yourself. Why wouldn’t you be happy with a civil union?
She told me she had already answered my question. Yes, that was all I needed to hear.